How can i make friends with women online? (women only)?

Im not very good making friends with people my own gender so i would prefer talking to women, problem is when you send them messages online, it seems like 80% will think "he just wants to have sex with me, i will ignore him" - im not like that. Im not a bad looking lad i have been told many times so i dont believe there is a problem there. All i need really is some help on how to talk to you women... Say you had a profile on a populat social networking site and a guy messaged you, what would you want the message to say if you just wanted to make a friend? what would you not want the message to say? thanks

How can i make friends with women online? (women only)?
Ask if she has IM and go from there. I've met people that way and turned out to be decent friends. Ask questions but not too personal and see what happens.
Reply:you should start has just saying a friendly hi and yes I am a girl so if you ever gust want to talk just pop in and say hi