Need Serious Help with Life and Future and making friends?

I often feel depressed because I do not have very many friends. I have tried communicating with others through online social networks like face book and I seem to still feel lonely. I am 17 years old I will be 18 soon and I don't really have friends who care about me that much. People just seem to dislike me for who I am...I don't think I am a very mean or a distrustful person I am just not very good looking. I feel really depressed I have considered anti-depressants, but I don't think they will do me any good. I try to find fun things to do by myself but in the end I just find myself sad or jealous of others who are hanging out in groups. I am kind of at a point where I just sort of hate life in general becuase I dont have very many friends and becuase I just have plain old bad luck. Should I continue searching for friends or should I just end it all. I was wondering if there was a way to find out if Heaven is more fun than life. Any advice for someone like me???

Need Serious Help with Life and Future and making friends?
It sounds like you are suffering from fairly severe depression. You need to talk to your doctor about this and he/she may be able to suggest a counsellor. The onset of this type of depression often comes on in late adolescence (your age). Until you get help with this everything will look grey and sad. You will always look at the negatives in every situation. You do need help to get you to a level where you can really address rationally those things that are bothering you.
Reply:I know how you feel, personally. But don't give up, people like us who are deprived of companionship for a while have more significant relationships/friendships later because we appreciate them more. It's worth the wait.
Reply:go to church or local group being online doesnt really make you any friends your supposed to TALK to your friends online not make them because then you dont know if they are creeps
Reply:People can b mean and the world will never stop changing 2 allow one person 2 get a hold on life. Don't be sad ( thay hate that) and remember, college is coming and that's when the most everlasting friends r made.


" jealous of others who are hanging out in groups." Me 2. wait and belive it's the only way. Be happy it helps!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:I found out, that you can't choose your friends.


And there is no good in trying to make friends with people.


Think of a friend that you've had in your life. Did you try hard to make friends with them, or did it just kind of happen?


I think that's how we make friends, it's just... destiny.





If someone doesn't like you, and you're communicating and being open, then you're not doing anything wrong. If a n y o n e is open, no one reacts negatively unless they're afraid of it. So if you can just be yourself, (which I think means, just not doing anything just to fit in, and doing what you think and know is right), and positive, and nice to people, and open, then you will get great reactions, I think.





About the whole suicide thing:


Right now, you're having trouble, I'm not going to say you're not. I know exactly how you feel, and sooo many other people do. Right now, you may not like yourself, I don't know, and right now, you may not be having a good life and there really is no point. So what is there to live for?


Well, one, there's all the friends that you are GOING to make in your life!


two, there's all the other good stuff you're going to have in your long life.


and then, if you shouldn't live for the person you are, live for the person you can BECOME.


A lot can happen in a year or so. You could be a whole different person! Think about all the changes you've made in your life.


Anyway, I hope this isn't going too long... to sum it all up, my advice is, no, don't try so hard to make friends, because you have your own purpose and life and whatever happens in it will happen, (also, that's a reason not to be jealous, everyone has their own life, they have friends, you don't. But that means that when you have friends, it will be even more meaningful.) and DON'T even THINK about ending your life. Seriously, you have so much going for you. I only know this because you're only 17!!!!!


I'm telling a lot of people about this video. It's such a help!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prGosdaZ8...


(listen to the whole thing, it gets somewhere)

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