Am i being unreasonable asking my gf not to meet random guys online?

My girlfriend uses all those social networking sites, she puts up pictures of herself look really hot, and obviously loads of guys add her as a friend and she always excepts them even tho she doesnt know them! They flirt with her shamlessly and she still gives them her IM addresses, she says they arent flirting and that im being over the top and too jealous, but these guys tell her how much they miss her if she isnt online some guys tell her they lover her and she doesnt seem to understand that this upsets me! I know she isnt gonna do anything with these guys, i assume she just does it cos she likes the attention, but she gets really pissed off when i tell her that it makes me feel uncomfortable, especially when these guys start telling her they lover her and that they miss her and stuff like that! Am i being unreasonable asking her to not talk to all these random guys?

Am i being unreasonable asking my gf not to meet random guys online?
no you are NOT being unreasonable at all. That is totally inconsiderate
Reply:I would feel the same about that situation. I wou;d go nuts if my girlfriend thought it was ok to talk to random people even when they are flirting. Maybe she needs a lot of attention and that could be a big problem for you as things cool down in the relationship.
Reply:well shes being waaay inconsiderate! most girls dont realize that we have feelings too. they also dont realize that once we get devoted to a relationship, we want to get rid of everything that could stand in the way of it. if they say they love her than you really need to step in and take care of this man
Reply:Your gf is inconsiderate and you have every right to be angry. Maybe you need a new gf?
Reply:i say let her go...
Reply:Your relationship is over. If she is chatting it up with other guys she isnt into you. let her go. Im not saying that a girlfriend cant have guy friends but if she is actively seeking out the attention of random guys she isnt going to stay with you. If she keeps doing it knowing you are upset by it she isnt worth keeping around.
Reply:see ur behave is normal for ny guy whi is in love.. but u know if u try to boss around u wont get things done.. just try to change the way u tell her to stop the practice. and this might be tricky coz acc to ur desc she wants attention whether she know tht guy or not.. so just tell her in softest manner to avoid these guys..make her understand that there are guys who are kinda psychos and can even become obsessed with her,.


she will understand
Reply:Nope. It sounds like she is keeping her options open and is not committed to the relationship in the same way you appear to be. Either that or she has a major personality flaw where, as you say, she requires constant attention.
Reply:As long as she doesn't tell them the same things they do, I think she's only doing for the attention and to be praised. Does she put in her profile that she have a boyfriend? If not, tell her to do it. Does she like to flirt with guys in person? If not I don't think you need to worry, because you can't do anything by web but I understand that it bothers you.





To know really how she is, why don't you make a fake profile with a good looking pic of some other guy and talk to her to see if she even mention you or what she really say to them.
Reply:She's got an issue and even if she's not meeting them, the flirting and the comments are inappropriate for someone in a relationship.





Perhaps her desire for attention is stronger than her feelings for you. For me, that behavior would be a dealbreaker.
Reply:If i were you I'd patch things up really fast. I would take her out somewhere special and then tell her how much you care for her and are watching out for her and this is why it upsets you.
Reply:I say give her a taste of her own medicine. You are being totally reasonable, and it seems like your girl thinks the world revolves around her or something... And if it's just meeting guys online now, how is it gonna be in 2-3 years? Will she be over it, or still in it? You already brought up your concerns to her, and she replied with a kind of 'hostile' comment.





I'd dump her if I were you.
Reply:Yes, you are. 'Cause what you should do is start answering a few of your own and quit worrying about it. When you start paying more attention to your online girls instead of her, she'll understand better how you feel. Try it and be


carefree about it because she's already doing it. Have fun pal,





the incredible askaman
Reply:U are being totally reasonable...That is your giral and she should not be talking to other guys on the internet especially flirting with them. WHy dont you do the same and see if she likes random girls flirting with you..Give her a taste of her own medicine and see if that makes her stop...Good Luck...
Reply:look she is not doing any thing wrong and she is only talking to people to make freinds i mean if you really want to know if she is trying to see somebody dont you think she would quit hanging out with you and act like she is busy also when she is busy on the innernet does not count. if you want to know how to find out if she is truly cheating on u than email me and i will tell yo because i need to hear the details because the way you both are making it look is like your being over reactive and she is being neglective and stuff so if you need help email me
Reply:I just read your gf's question. Go fight about it at home, don't bring your problems on yahoo answers. You're saying something completely different from her tho. You guys need to talk it out. Just tell her how you feel about her advertising herself on all those websites.
Reply:absolutely not! To me, this seems the same as meeting random guys at a bar or some other place like that. She's probably insecure and likes the attention of other guys telling her how goodlooking she is but that is completely unacceptable and unfair to you. She shouldn't need any other men telling her she's attractive and they love/miss her than you.
Reply:no way are you being unreasonable,


sure she deserves her privacy but shes basically cheating on you.





shes being extremely selfish, to say the least.
Reply:no your not...shes looking around and thats not fair to you or your feelings. Loose her shes trouble.