Friday, April 16, 2010

How do i attract more women? Im not a "bad ***" just a laid back guy looking for fun?

i asked a similar question, but it was in regard to race.. Im not that great about meeting women out of the blue.. I live in a college area, where tons of women reside. I see beautiful women everyday, but never know what a great approach would be, since most women look shook out their boots when they walk the streets... I dont want to come off as creepy, i just want to come off as an interested nice guy, who would love to get to know them.. Bar Hopping is played, and im not looking to join some crazy social network just to meet women. Im an individual, and i stand tall all by myself. I work, and i go to school.. Yes i have interests, and just hope that i can meet a woman the natural way, instead of an online dating site....is that too much to ask?

How do i attract more women? Im not a "bad ***" just a laid back guy looking for fun?
You're making it more complicated than it is.. Women like to be approached, you just have to scope it out the right way and be sensitive to her signs. K, so you are in line at a coffee shop/grocery store/whatever, and someone catches your eye.. does she hold your eye contact? or does she look away immediately (if so move on man).. Do you ever catch anyone looking your way in class? Ever have a woman ask you a random "do you know the time" question? There are so many times that I've wanted someone to talk to me, and looking back they had no clue. No matter how progressive and foward thinking we ladies of the new millenium are, we still don't wanna be the ones chasing.. Most women I know would love if a good looking guy came up and said "I'm sorry to bother you, but I just wanted to tell you that I think you are amazing...Hey, no pressure, just wanted to let you know" If you don't wanna be creepy, don't be creepy then. Don't feed generic lines, be genuine..Be relaxed, confident and not overbearing or desperate in your tone and manner and you'll be good. What's the worst that can happen, anyway?


Do you have any idea how many times we women get oogled and disrespected on a daily basis? Whistles and cat calls galore. Ew. The genuine and respectful approach will be much appreciated and welcomed.
Reply:Be patient....you will meet the lucky lady. Women really like to become friends with a man before anything else develops. Maybe a co-worker of yours is interested in you, but you just haven't opened your eyes to see her. Be attentive, I am sure women give you the look on a daily basis. Don't wait for the women in business attire, you also have to look at the women in jeans a t shirt.....she may wear business attire by day, jeans by night.

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